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A Missouri divorce takes at least 30 days, no exceptions. State law imposes a mandatory “cooling-off” period that starts the moment you file your petition with the circuit court – not when your spouse is served. Until those 30 days pass, a judge legally can’t sign your final Decree of Dissolution.
The idea was to stop people from filing on impulse. In reality, most couples file only after they’re already done. Today, the waiting period mainly gives the court time to process paperwork and lets you file required documents like financial disclosures or a parenting plan. So yes, it’s less about deep reflection and more about watching the calendar do its thing.
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Uncontested Divorce (30 – 90 Days)
Although the legal minimum is 30 days, a more realistic timeline for an uncontested divorce in Missouri is 60 to 90 days. Even when you agree on everything, the clock doesn’t include time to serve your spouse, wait for their response, or get a hearing scheduled on a judge’s crowded calendar. Turns out “uncontested” still has to wait its turn.
| Stage | Approximate Time | Details |
|---|---|---|
| Filing & Service | 1 – 14 Days | You file the petition. Your spouse then signs a “Waiver of Service” or is formally served by a sheriff. |
| Cooling-Off Period | 30 Days | This is the fixed legal minimum waiting period required by Missouri law. |
| Administrative Prep | 14 – 45 Days | You must complete the mandatory “Litigant Awareness Program” and, if you have children, a parental education class. |
| Final Hearing | 1 – 4 Weeks | Once the 30 days pass and paperwork is filed, you wait for the court’s next available uncontested docket date. |
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Contested Divorce (6 Months – 1 Year+)
A contested divorce in Missouri typically takes 6 to 12 months, sometimes longer. There’s no special law extending the waiting period – contested cases just move slower because disagreements require evidence, hearings, and actual court time, which makes the 30-day minimum completely unrealistic.
The timeline starts after the other spouse is served and files an Answer, kicking off discovery. This is when both sides must exchange financial records, property details, and other evidence – a process that alone can take 3 to 6 months. The faster you handle service and organize documents, the sooner the case can inch forward.
This long timeline exists to protect due process, allowing time to uncover assets, evaluate custody issues, and attempt mediation before final decisions are made. In other words, it’s slow because the court prefers facts over vibes.
| Stage | Approximate Time | Details |
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| Service & Answer | 30 – 45 Days | After filing, your spouse has 30 days to file a formal “Answer” to your petition. |
| Discovery Phase | 3 – 6 Months | The longest stage; lawyers exchange documents, take depositions, and value assets. |
| Mediation | 1 – 2 Months | Most Missouri judges require you to attempt mediation before they will grant a trial date. |
| Trial & Judgment | 2 – 6 Months | If mediation fails, you wait for an available trial date. A judge then makes the final ruling. |
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Mandatory Time Gates and Procedural Delays
These are Missouri’s legal speed limits – the absolute fastest a divorce case is allowed to move, no matter how cooperative everyone is.
- The 30-Day “Cooling-Off” Period: Missouri law (RSMo § 452.305) forbids a judge from signing a divorce decree until 30 days after filing. You can agree on everything and show up on Day 5, but the answer is still no. The calendar, not your feelings, is in charge.
- The 30-Day Response Window: After being served, the other spouse has 30 days to file an Answer. If they don’t, you can seek a default – but only after the deadline passes. Silence doesn’t speed things up; it just makes you wait quietly.
- The 90-Day Residency Gate: At least one spouse must live in Missouri for 90 days before filing. Move here last week? Too bad – you’re benched until the clock runs out.
- The 30-Day Finality Rule: Even after the judge signs the decree, the divorce isn’t fully final for another 30 days due to appeal rules. You’re legally single, but the court keeps a hand on the wheel – just in case it feels like swerving.
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Other Factors that Affect the Divorce Timeline
Unlike statutory waiting periods, these delays aren’t written into law – they’re built into how the divorce process actually works.
- The “Service” Gap: The 30-day response clock doesn’t start until your spouse is formally served. If they’re dodging service or live out of state, weeks or months can pass before anything officially begins. Hard to move forward when the starting line keeps moving.
- Mandatory Parenting Education: If you have minor children, most Missouri courts require a parenting class before scheduling a final hearing. No certificates in the file, no court date. Apparently, paperwork learns faster than people.
- Discovery Backlog: In contested cases, discovery means exchanging financial records, appraisals, and valuations – often taking 3 to 6 months. This is the single biggest delay in most cases. Turns out finances don’t magically organize themselves.
- Mediation Requirements: Many Missouri courts require mediation before you can even request a trial date. Coordinating calendars alone can add 4 to 8 weeks. Nothing resolves conflict faster than waiting for everyone’s availability.
- The “Docket” Wait: Even if everything is done, you still need time on the judge’s calendar. In busy counties like St. Louis or Jackson, securing a short uncontested hearing can take weeks. Because “uncontested” doesn’t mean “urgent.”
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When Does the Clock Start?
- The 30-Day Cooling Off Period: Starts the second you file the paperwork.
- The 30-Day Response Window: Starts only when your spouse is formally served (or signs a waiver).
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